dude i am facing similar problem mine is
I am using an HP a1530N computer with a Lakeport Leucite P5LP-LE motherboard. I am trying to load a fresh copy of Windows XP on to a brand new (formatted) Western Digital 1.0 TB (WD10EADS) hard drive.
When windows gets to the point of asking where I want windows loaded, there are no options. It does not recognize the hard drive.
I have also tried another Western Digital 250 gig hard drive (WD2500JS) with the same result.
During either hard drive installation, it is the only hard drive on the computer.